Bench Players

Thanks to one of my friends, I revisited this song.....taking players off the bench....

+ Today I went to an event that was showcasing African American artists' work and I met some insightful elderly individuals, who wanted me to understand that I must give back to our community, become successful, and break out of my shell....OH, and not to mention the constant push for me to "speak" to the artists there or take business cards from some of the eligible bachelors, which of course I kept politely declining.....but it definitely has me thinking...what in the hell am I waiting for? really.....the process of finding me is well underway...I don't know if I'm ready to add another person to my love fest with myself. Not to mention I had a couple of hiccups and EMBARRASSING moments involving a couple of innocent bystanders....but obviously God put them there for a reason, which I believe was a lesson of patience and humbleness. I guess life is always teaching us not to take ourselves too seriously. If you put yourself out there, its okay if some people decline, because sometimes they're not ready for all that you bring or you need to take a closer look at yourself.





Until next time....*muah*
Spread Positivity and Be Positive
...peace